When A Loved One Is Cremated, What Should You Do With Their Ashes?

After a loved one passes away and is cremated, their ashes are placed inside an urn and presented to the family. What happens after this is up to the family. Some families may wish to scatter the ashes in a place that was special to their loved one, but other families might prefer to hold onto the urn, so that it's as though their loved one is still there. What happens when there's a dispute about who actually gets to keep the urn?